Practice School Lock downs and an Unknown Future

Last night at dinner, we were sitting together as a family and talking about our days. Samantha casually mentions that they had a practice lock down today. That was a jolt. Kindergartners being drilled on staying quiet while hiding the coat nook? After a few seconds, I composed myself and asked what would cause a lock down. I wanted to know how much she knew about the real reason for lock downs. Samantha gave an example of someone who was really mad that they would need to hide from. I told her that I've heard of some people that try to hurt others and that it was good that she was aware of that. She seemed to understand and the conversation moved on. However, I'm left with another example of how the world has changed since my childhood.

I'm prepared for things to be different for our kids. Cyber-bullying and the illusion of community over the Internet are just 2 examples. The prevalence and effects of technology and sensationalized media can be overwhelming. But the main message Daddy and I are sending isn't one that forbids all things "evil", but essentially to practice self-discipline. There is balance in moderation. Play video games, but not all the time. Don't watch more than an episode or two of TV. Eat until you're not hungry any longer, don't stuff yourself because then you probably won't feel good. (This theory is usually tested by me every other month or so.)

Screen limitations are enforced lately because we've noticed that the girls aren't as attentive or respectful after watching hours of TV. We've been having a lot of conversations with Samantha especially about that because awareness is the first step. I don't watch a lot of TV, but I am a compulsive reader on my iPhone and yes, I'm working on it.

The truth is that there is violence every day in this world and all we can do as parents is teach them to learn and adapt to whatever their situation is. We'll get more into self-defense and role-playing as our girls grow. The future is unknown and at our house, we are okay with that.